Reflections from my 30's

Who came up with this saying? This person definitely was not experiencing the kind of pressure we face today. Society tells us that by the age of thirty (30) we should be married, own a car and a house, already have one child, and be settled in our careers making lots of money. We should know what we are about, our passions, our calling, and have a plan for our lives as we walk out our productive years.  If we are all honest with ourselves, many of us have been to that place mentally and back.  After we have passed a certain age we feel that since we have not achieved a certain milestone that we need to 'help God out' by taking matters into our own hands otherwise it won't happen for us, or we just live without that level of expectation. We s ubmit to the pressure and determine that since we have not achieved these things within 'the timeframe' that somehow we are doing something wrong or that something is wrong with us.  I know I have been to this pla