Reflections from my 30's

So today I was looking at my vehicle and all the damage done to it based on previous accidents, including the protective coating that was now stripping away from its exterior. I could not help but think about all that was needed to restore it to it's former glory and wondering if it was all worth it. I have been toying with the idea of wanting a new vehicle, because after 3+ years it just seemed like the time to change out a 2011 vehicle that has served as an EXCELLENT 'starter' vehicle.  However do I really want to or need to change out my vehicle at this time? Is the added expense in this season really necessary? Is wanting a new vehicle a bad thing? Certainly not! Who would not want that new car smell, with all the new features and technology that make the driving experience so much more comfortable. However, if I just make the investment and fix it to restore it to it's mint condition won't the returns be worth it? If not for me at least for the next

So another birthday has come and gone. I am one year further into my 30's and another year closer to 40. As I reflect on this particular birthday I am not only grateful but I acknowledge the fact that all the fanfare is not necessary to have a great birthday or any day for that matter. I planned out everything to enjoy my own day and it was wonderful. Not only did the pandemic teach me this lesson through having to 'pivot' but just plain 'ole life. The life which teaches that hey other people have their own journeys too and it is not every time that our paths will cross.  Too often we place our happiness in the hands of others and when they don't live up to our expectations we are devasted.  I spent many birthdays feeling a bit down because I felt that there was not a lot of thought put into celebrating my day. I, especially in my later years either spent it alone or made plans myself, and those who could join in did. It seemed that I was the one who pla